[Success Secret Sauce] Series 6/8 Your Success in Faith and Fear

Tracy Worley is America’s leading grace coach, international key-note speaker, trainer, syndicated radio host, author, and potential seeker, strategist and CEO of three values leadership based organizations. She works with business executives, entrepreneurs, and leaders world-wide to develop potential, tailor employee engagement modules, and turn up the volume on individuals and organizations potential personally and professionally.

Tracy knows firsthand about what it takes to find your potential, Individuals and organizations have individual cultures, stories, and rhythm – Tracy’s innovative style knows how to make it work. With a background in business management, business communication, project management, and life’s drama, Tracy found herself running a multi-million dollar organization at the age of 25.

Tracy knows from life experience the ups and downs of colossal failure and the elation of success beyond imagination.

But it’s exactly all these experiences that built character, knowledge, wisdom, and intuitive insight into individual and organizational potential. Tracy is highly intuitive, perceptive, and a world thinker in connecting what you cannot see. These gifts give her the ability to strategize with clarity where you are, where you want to be, and how to get there. Tracy’s expertise: training highly successful people to lead with authenticity to the desired success her client’s desire and deserve.

What tools are you using to engage and ensure change is AWESOME?

I love—no I really mean love—the word FEAR! Several years back I heard an acronym of the word, and ever since then have fallen in love with fear.

 What is fear?  False | Evidence | Appearing | Real

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If things go wrong do not go with them! Stand tall in faith, because tomorrow is another day toward formulating your secret sauce for success.

So now you know that fear is false evidence that our minds appear to make real. Most of us are in sales one way or another, and what is the number one thing we do to create relationships? It’s those dreaded phone calls! People are afraid of the phone, because they are creating a false fear of rejection and of hearing the word NO. But here’s the scariest part: What do you do when you get a YES!!!

Don’t get me wrong. I believe that there are healthy fears, like not standing too close to the edge of a cliff without proper safety gear. However, creating your secret sauce to success has a dash of healthy fear and faith in your ability.

“Fear creates a barrier towards action and discipline in reaching your potential. When you spend energy in fear, you have wasted an opportunity. “Fear not that your life will come to an end, but that it will never have a beginning” ~ J.H.Newman.

Focusing on what we can control brings a healthy expectation and perception of fear. There are so many people, places, and things not in your control, so stop worrying and being fearful of an outcome you have no part of. Mark Twain states this so well, “I’ve been through some terrible things in my life, a few of which actually happened.”

It is a privilege to share this time with you, and I hope to walk alongside you in your Secret Success Sauce journey.

Look UP & OUT!

Tracy Worley

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Why Heart Partners Are Essential To Your Success

Tracy Worley is America’s leading grace coach, international key-note speaker, trainer, syndicated radio host, author, and potential seeker, strategist and CEO of three values leadership based organizations. She works with business executives, entrepreneurs, and leaders world-wide to develop potential, tailor employee engagement modules, and turn up the volume on individuals and organizations potential personally and professionally.

Tracy knows firsthand about what it takes to find your potential, Individuals and organizations have individual cultures, stories, and rhythm – Tracy’s innovative style knows how to make it work. With a background in business management, business communication, project management, and life’s drama, Tracy found herself running a multi-million dollar organization at the age of 25.

Tracy knows from life experience the ups and downs of colossal failure and the elation of success beyond imagination.

But it’s exactly all these experiences that built character, knowledge, wisdom, and intuitive insight into individual and organizational potential. Tracy is highly intuitive, perceptive, and a world thinker in connecting what you cannot see. These gifts give her the ability to strategize with clarity where you are, where you want to be, and how to get there. Tracy’s expertise: training highly successful people to lead with authenticity to the desired success her client’s desire and deserve.

 

Heart Partner Tracy WorleyLast post I talked about Thinking Partners and why they are imperative to your success. Today let’s dive into Heart Partners or as better know as an Accountability Partner. I refer to them as Heart Partners because for true progress in any area of your life accountability must happen and imperative you let them “in” at a heart level! Great leadership starts from connecting to the heart and then they will follow. This principle holds true for self-leadership, you must believe from the core!

A Heart Partner is the person or group who supports and loves you unconditionally and does not care you did not win the biggest contract of the year. A Heart Partner listens without condition and gives you the foundation of confident courage to get up and do it again! They hold you accountable to yourself! Organizational accountability is easy the hardest accountability is to yourself because it is easy to say to say, “no one else knows my goal.”

Be honest how many times did you set goals and did not tell anyone because 1) It is easier 2) If we fail no one knows 3) If no one knows then I am not a failure, 4) If no one knows then daily steps toward it do not matter.

Well, no one may know but  you do and this is self-sabotage for your success and relationships.

Finding a Heart Partner is the ability and willingness to give an account to someone else of your actions, goals, and desires.The list below gives you a basic outline of what to look for in a Heart Partner as well as how to set expectations.

  • Heart Partnership is not forced.
  • Be open about what you are doing and WHY.
  • You own the partnership from your missed deadlines, mistakes, messes, habits, your character.
  • Where do you desire partnership to help achieve your goals; write specific words and outline of what this looks like for you.
  • Define clear objectives and then give your partner permission ( permission is essential in how and when you want to be held accountable)
  • Define what motivates you to success.
  • Transparency, the more transparent you can share and your partner can share with you is IMPERATIVE toward your success.
  • Heart Partners must be trustworthy to hold confidences
  • Good partners are not timid to ask you questions as they want the best for you, so let them ask questions.
  • Responsibility as a Heart Partner is serious and this is someone who gives you the support you need and the right amount of “medicine” to ensure it goes down.
  • Consistency is key! Meet at a regular time and do not cancel or change, this is for you!
  • Heart Partner accountability will look differently for everyone and for every goal.

Accountability is painful or rewarding, it is all a matter of perspective and for me personally I have areas where I AVOID it. I also know what it takes for me to grow faster and go further and that is to on-board a Heart Partner. The imperative for me is to set the clear expectation and give them permission to kick my bum bum!

Who are you giving permission to kick your bum-bum into heart of the matter; YOUR SUCCESS!

Look UP and OUT!

Tracy Worley

My Heart Partnerships:

  • Daily Calls: I have a partner who I text when I achieved my 5 daily calls.
  • Exercise: I have a partner who I am accountable to with weekly check in with what I did daily for achievement to my goal.
  • Study: I have several partners who I connect with over the phone or messaging on what I have read, learned, and applied. This is a growth area in my life personally and professionally.
  • Speaking: I have specific goals in this area so have connected with others to hold me accountable to making the calls, marketing, etc…
  • Mentorship: I have several mentors and mentorship groups, this keeps me connected, engaged, and challenged toward growth.